The trappings trap them. The client wishes to live a simpler life but is unable to do so because of the material possessions that their current lifestyle provides. Request that these clients write a list of why they want a simpler life and why they want to maintain their current lifestyle. Then, create a priority list similar to the one described in Treading the treadmill. Coaching is about assisting your clients in achieving balance in all aspects of their lives. Their obsession with materialism is tipping the scales for these clients.
Suckers sucker them. Some clients associate with people who drain their juice and energy. These friends, colleagues, sports partners, and spouses dampen such clients’ enthusiasm by creating obstacles or excuses to prevent change. Ask your client to consider the probability that their associates may feel threatened by the planned changes and may require reassurance from the client that the change will benefit all parties. If this reassurance is ineffective, they may need to make difficult decisions about the worth of these friendships. Encourage and support your client in making new friends in areas where they want to go. Explain to them that they should spend their time wisely and with people who will assist them rather than hinder them. This transition may take some time because some clients will be reluctant to give up old friends in exchange for new ideas. A smooth and successful transition is to constantly agree to tasks that encourage the formation of new friendships, leave little time for activities with old, unsupportive friends, and promote the persisting small amount of time to be spent with only old friends who are positive-minded.
Life coaching is about removing obstacles and encouraging clients to push past their perceived barriers to achieving their goals and dreams. It is about using communication skills for your clients and to assist them in identifying roadblocks in their daily lives. The goal is for them to live a balanced and fulfilling life. It’s about being there for your clients when everyone else assumes they’re angry, harmful, or sad. It realises that all your clients have enormous potential waiting to be discovered. It knows that you, as a coach, can assist.
In some instances, many prospective coaches are concerned about the cost of a certification programme. Instead of viewing it as a significant expense, consider it an investment in yourself and your future. By committing to becoming a life coach, you can justify the programme’s cost by focusing on the opportunities it will provide you, the skills you will gain, and future salary opportunities. In addition to these advantages, you will have the chance to make a significant difference in the lives of others.
For many, these advantages are sufficient to justify the cost of a training programme. However, money is a barrier that many people struggle to overcome. Find a more affordable school if you genuinely want to get your certification. Consider the various ways you could earn extra money. Some coaches have taken on part-time jobs to help pay for their education. Others have devised clever ways to save money. There is a way if there is a will, as the old adage goes.